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’A Drummer’s Guide To...’ is the podcast that dives into everything it takes to thrive as a professional musician beyond the practice room. Hosted by Emily Dolan Davies, a drummer since 1999, pro since 2008, and a passionate mentor since 2018, this show unpacks the real-world challenges, triumphs, and strategies for building the career of your dreams. Whether you’re chasing gigs, navigating the music industry, or balancing passion with practicality, Emily’s got your back with honest insights and inspiring stories. Find out more about Emily at EmilyDrums.com
’A Drummer’s Guide To...’ is the podcast that dives into everything it takes to thrive as a professional musician beyond the practice room. Hosted by Emily Dolan Davies, a drummer since 1999, pro since 2008, and a passionate mentor since 2018, this show unpacks the real-world challenges, triumphs, and strategies for building the career of your dreams. Whether you’re chasing gigs, navigating the music industry, or balancing passion with practicality, Emily’s got your back with honest insights and inspiring stories. Find out more about Emily at EmilyDrums.com
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Saturday Mar 28, 2026
221 - The One Shot Myth (Q from Anonymous)
Saturday Mar 28, 2026
Saturday Mar 28, 2026
Do you only get one chance to network with someone… or is that just something we’ve told ourselves?
In this episode, I answer a brilliant question from Anonymous about networking on Instagram, sending DMs, and how to actually build real connections — especially when it feels like you’re “using up your one shot” every time you reach out.
We talk about:
Why cold DMs often fall flat
How relationships are actually built online
The shift from “one message” to “ongoing presence”
Why being seen matters more than being perfect
And how to approach networking in person — especially if you don’t get a second chance to recognise someone
This episode is a big mindset shift if you’ve ever:
👉 Overthought a DM
👉 Worried about saying the wrong thing
👉 Felt like conversations always dry up
👉 Or assumed networking is about getting it right first time
It’s not about one shot. It’s about familiarity.
🎧 Listen now and rethink how you connect.
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